Bad relationship with dad?

my father and I fight almost every other day. He seems to find new reasons to make me fell like **** everytime. He tells me to shut up so i do then he asks me y i wont speak. When i speak he tells me to shut up. idk wat to do anymore i just dont care anymore? are there ways to actually get along with someone like that? He's been out of a job for over a year now and is only whining how he wants to go back to my old country and tht he needs a job, yet he doesnt do anything to actually acquire one. Its really pissing me off how my mom is working her ** off wile my dad stays home depressed and always igniting sparks for arguments