Women, why do men aggravate you?

I post this nice question about how I would treat my man then some guy comes on it making judgements about me. Then he's saying I wouldn't love my man unconditionally which I never said. I mean I think a woman and a man could have a great relationship together if the men didn't sit around all the time while his wife worked around the house. I also think if he can remember important dates then there is no reason for me to bicker. Am I asking too much? I would treat my man like a king if he could just fufill those two wishes.